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Resources & Recommended Reads

Books, helpful links, organisations, and our favourite things — all in one place.

Helpful Documents

What to Ask When Starting Swinging

What to Pack for a Sexy Holiday

Books We Love

A curated list of books for, by, and about bi+ and non-monogamous people.

Polywise

Jessica Fern

Polysecure

Jessica Fern

The Like Switch

Jack Schafer & Marvin Karlins

Drawn to Sex: The Basics

Erika Moen & Matthew Nolan

A Life Less Monogamous

Cooper S. Beckett

Sex At Dawn

Christopher Ryan

More Than Two

Eve Rickert & Andrea Zanin

What Every Body is Saying

Joe Navarro

The Body is Not an Apology

Sonya Renee Taylor

Oh Joy Sex Toy

Erika Moen & Matthew Nolan

Open All the Way

Sadie Smythe

Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships

Tristan Taormino

Favourite Things

Organisations, helplines, media, and tools we think are worth knowing about.

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Our Secret Spot

Sydney’s premier swingers club and the home of our bi-monthly Pendulum parties. A welcoming, inclusive space designed for connection, exploration, and unforgettable nights with a vibrant social atmosphere.

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The Rabbit Hole

Adelaide’s premier swingers club, offering a stylish and welcoming space for like-minded adults to socialise, explore, and enjoy themed events in a comfortable, community-focused atmosphere.

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Bi+ Visibility

A community-driven initiative focused on increasing visibility, awareness, and celebration of bi+ identities through events, advocacy, education, and representation within the broader LGBTQIA+ community.

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QLife

Australia-wide anonymous and free LGBTQIA+ peer support and referral service, offering phone and webchat support for people wanting to talk about sexuality, gender, relationships, identity, mental health, and community connection.

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Geeky Sex Toys

A playful, inclusive online store specialising in body-safe sex toys, kink gear, and pleasure products with a proudly nerdy twist.

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Between Friends Wine Bar

Where two of our favourite things come together: exceptional wine and open-minded company. This venue blends sophisticated wine bar vibes with a relaxed, social environment for connection, conversation, and a bit of spicy fun.

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Biconic Sydney

Sydney’s leading bi+ party and events community, creating vibrant, inclusive spaces for bisexual, pansexual, queer, and questioning people — along with their friends and allies — to connect, celebrate, and build community.

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Turing Circle (LGBT+ Scientists & Engineers)

A Sydney-based LGBTQ+ community for people working or studying in STEM fields, creating welcoming social and professional spaces for scientists, engineers, technologists, and researchers to connect and support one another.

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Life on the Swingset

A long-running podcast and online community exploring swinging, polyamory, and open relationships through honest conversations, interviews, education, and real-world experiences from within the consensual non-monogamy community.

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